I was taken today by this line in The Longly-Weds Know by Leah Furnas (https://allpoetry.com/poem/3571202-The-Longly-weds-Know-by-XxEmOtiOnjOxX), reminded both that I am of that “longly wed” classification and of the truth of the statement:
The Longly -Weds Know
“That it isn’t about the Golden Anniversary at all,
But about all the unremarkable years
that Hallmark doesn’t even make a card for.”
But perhaps my favorite sequence:
“It’s about the 37th year when she finally
decided she could never change him
And the 38th when he decided
a little change wasn’t that bad.”
And of course, the payoff:
“But most of all its about the end of the 49th year
when they discovered you don’t have to be old
to have your 50th anniversary.”