I had to change my computer password at work recently, which is always a hassle. I find myself typing in the old one out of habit, though I know I have a new one. In fact, it seems like just about the time the “new” password becomes automatic, it is time to change to a different new one.
It occurs to me that this is a good life lesson here. Change is almost always difficult. Even when I know intellectually it is good (thwarting hackers), change is still difficult to embrace. Yet, at some point, and generally without realizing it, the change I had such difficulty embracing becomes the change I have difficulty letting go of. I am reminded of one of George Carlin’s comedy routines where he makes this astute observation – “Have you ever noticed that after you have a hat on for a while you forget it is there, and then, after you take it off, you still think it is there?”
All that to say – Change, hard to accept, hard to let go of. Go figure.