Comparisons

More Lamott on life and writing:

Though not one of her main points, at one point Lamott notes that “everyone is screwed up, broken, clingy, and scared.”  While I think there is some hyperbole there, it is a fact that we all have issues, and also a fact that some folks hide those issues better than others.  That leads Lamott to this admonition: “try not to compare your insides to other people’s outsides.”  When I compare, that’s of course exactly what I do – I compare what I know to be truth about me to what I BELIEVE to be truth as to others.  Putting it that way, it occurs to me that the risk in that comparison is, well, obvious.

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